Who texts more — and how does the pattern change?
See who starts the day, how replies compare, and how your messaging changes over time. Start with a free breakdown.
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How to export your WhatsApp chat
It takes about 20 seconds. Export as text, without media.
- 1Open the individual chat you want to analyze.
- 2Tap the three dots (⋮) in the top right, then More.
- 3Tap Export chat.
- 4Choose Without media.
- 5Save the .txt file (or send it to yourself), then upload it here.
- Who texts more (the headline split)
- Who starts the conversation
- Average message length
- Top emoji for each person
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How to export your WhatsApp chat
It takes about 20 seconds. Export as text, without media.
- 1Open the individual chat you want to analyze.
- 2Tap the three dots (⋮) in the top right, then More.
- 3Tap Export chat.
- 4Choose Without media.
- 5Save the .txt file (or send it to yourself), then upload it here.
What our users say
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james carter this app literally exposed me lol turns out i reply like 3x faster than my gf she was dying when i showed her
olivia reed ngl didn't expect the emoji tracking to be this accurate found out i use 😂 way too much smh
liam foster dropped our chat history in here and it instantly showed who texts more... genuinely eye opening lmao
emma walsh the response time graph was so brutal fr i guess i’m the needy one in this relationship now 💀
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What WhoTextsMore reveals about your conversations
Every WhatsApp conversation carries a rhythm. One person often sends the first message of the day, replies within seconds and writes longer paragraphs, while the other keeps things short or takes hours to answer. On its own each message feels random, but across thousands of messages a clear pattern of who invests more effort appears — and that is exactly what WhoTextsMore measures.
Upload the plain .txt file that WhatsApp exports and the analyzer counts every message, word, emoji and media item for each person. In a couple of seconds you see the who-texts-more split, who starts conversations, average message length, response times, late-night texting habits and an interest-balance score that turns all of it into a single, easy-to-read number.
Because the whole analysis runs inside your browser, nothing is uploaded and no account is required. Your chat never touches a server, is never stored, and disappears the moment you close the tab — so you get honest insight into your texting dynamics with complete privacy.
Free and instant
The core stats — who texts more, who starts conversations, average message length, media shared and top emoji per person — are free and appear the instant your file loads.
The full relationship report
Unlock reply-time trends, night-owl patterns, double-texting frequency, your interest-balance score and the complete monthly timeline for a deeper picture of any one-on-one or group chat.
Frequently asked questions
Is my chat uploaded anywhere?
No. WhoTextsMore is 100% client-side. Your chat file is read and analyzed entirely in your browser and is never sent to any server.
Which WhatsApp export do I use?
Export a single chat as a .txt file 'Without media'. On Android use the chat menu → More → Export chat. On iPhone tap the chat name → Export Chat.
Does it work with group chats?
Yes. If you upload a group chat you can pick any two people to compare, or see per-person stats.
What do I get for free?
The core 'who texts more' split, who starts conversations, average message length, media counts and top emoji — all free and instant.
What's in the premium report?
Reply-time comparisons, reply-time trends, night messaging, double-texting frequency and your full monthly timeline.
Do you store my data after I close the tab?
Chat content is not stored on our server. Closing or reloading the page clears the analysis. Payment, access and limited technical records are handled separately.
Texting & relationship guides
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Read guide →How to Export a WhatsApp Chat as a Text File (Android & iPhone)
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