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What Kind of Texting Friend Are You?

Friendships live in group chats, voice notes, memes and the occasional three-week silence. Everyone plays a different role in keeping them going.

Answer eight questions about how you text your friends.

Questions: 8 · about 2 min

No sign-up and no chat upload. Answers stay on this page.

All possible results

  • The Group Chat Glue

    You keep everyone together.

    You start threads, make plans and tag the quiet ones. Many friend groups would slowly drift apart without someone like you.

  • The Voice-Note Friend

    Why type when you can tell it properly?

    Your friends get your stories with all the tone and laughter included. Voice notes feel personal, and people who love them love you for it.

  • The Reliable Replier

    Everyone can count on your answer.

    You read messages and you answer them — in groups and in private. Friends trust you because they never feel ignored.

  • The Low-Key Legend

    Few messages, solid friendships.

    You do not text much, but your friendships do not depend on it. When you meet, it is as if no time has passed.

Every friend group needs different texters

Friendships run on a mix of roles: someone organises, someone shares, someone always answers, someone is happily quiet. None of these is the “good friend” role — they work best together.

What strains friendships is rarely style; it is unspoken expectations. Saying “I am bad at texting but I love you” clears up a lot.

WhoTextsMore works on two-person WhatsApp chats and lets you pick two people in a group export. It shows who sends more and who starts conversations — calculated on your device.

Analyze a WhatsApp chat on your device →

Questions about this test

Is it rude not to reply in group chats?

Usually not. Most groups are fine with people who mostly read. Direct questions and plans are worth answering.

Can WhoTextsMore analyse a group chat?

You can upload a group export and choose two participants to compare. The analysis runs on your device.

Is this quiz scientific?

No — it is a light quiz about habits, for fun.